{"id":1741,"date":"2014-05-23T14:03:49","date_gmt":"2014-05-23T14:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bice.org\/fr\/comment-lhumour-peut-aider-la-resilience\/"},"modified":"2024-09-09T12:06:52","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T10:06:52","slug":"comment-lhumour-peut-aider-la-resilience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bice.org\/fr\/comment-lhumour-peut-aider-la-resilience\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment l\u2019humour peut aider la r\u00e9silience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La <a href=\"https:\/\/bice.org\/fr\/la-resilience-une-definition-simple-par-stefan-vanistendael\/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">r\u00e9silience<\/a>, qui permet aux enfants (et aux adultes) \u00e9prouv\u00e9s par la vie de retrouver confiance et espoir en l\u2019avenir, est l\u2019un des piliers sur lesquels le BICE s\u2019appuie dans toutes ses actions. Stefan Vanistendael, qui travaille sur ce sujet depuis de nombreuses ann\u00e9es, propose ici d\u2019articuler humour, croissance spirituelle et r\u00e9silience, en un lien rarement fait mais qui prouve tous les jours sa pertinence.<\/p>\n<h3>L\u2019humour comme enracinement dans le r\u00e9el<\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;<em>L\u2019humour fin et constructif me donne le sourire face \u00e0 l\u2019adversit\u00e9 : c\u2019est une modeste contribution \u00e0 la r\u00e9silience. Il attire mon attention sur un point positif et bien r\u00e9el dans la vie, un point que j\u2019avais oubli\u00e9 ou simplement pas per\u00e7u, souvent parce que j\u2019\u00e9tais trop occup\u00e9 par mes probl\u00e8mes. Ce point positif me permet de prendre un peu de recul par rapport \u00e0 mes probl\u00e8mes. Cet humour-l\u00e0 me permet en douceur de faire un pas en avant. Il m\u2019enracine plus profond\u00e9ment et plus positivement au coeur du r\u00e9el, et par cela m\u00eame donne un peu de sens \u00e0 ma vie, mais avec modestie. Comme le vieux monsieur ayant un probl\u00e8me grave et difficile, qui lan\u00e7ait avec un sourire : &#8220;Mon probl\u00e8me est immense dans mon petit monde, mais&#8230;il est petit dans le grand monde&#8221;<\/em> &#8220;, explique Stefan Vanistendael.<\/p>\n<h3>L\u2019humour en accompagnement de la foi<\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Dans le petit sch\u00e9ma suivant nous partons de trois situations de vie difficiles. Chaque fois nous d\u00e9couvrons comment le regard de la foi puisse devenir source de confiance et contribuer ainsi \u00e0 la r\u00e9silience, mais aussi comment l\u2019humour constructif est \u00e9tonnamment coh\u00e9rent avec une telle foi. Comme si l\u2019humour \u00e9tait un sourire encourageant de Dieu dans nos difficult\u00e9s. Il ne s\u2019agit pas d\u2019une &#8220;technique&#8221; \u00e0 appliquer, aux r\u00e9sultats garantis, mais d\u2019un fruit de notre abandon, petit ou grand<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<table>\n<thead>\n<tr>\n<th>Situation de vie<\/th>\n<th>Situation spirituelle<\/th>\n<th>La modeste contribution de l\u2019humour constructif<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>Il m\u2019est difficile de m\u2019accepter moi-m\u00eame comme je suis<\/td>\n<td>Dieu m\u2019accepte comme je suis, sans conditions<\/td>\n<td>L\u2019humour m\u2019aide \u00e0 int\u00e9grer certaines de mes fragilit\u00e9s dans ma vie<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Je veux trop contr\u00f4ler et ma\u00eetriser mon existence<\/td>\n<td>Dieu m\u2019invite sur des chemins impr\u00e9vus, surprenants<\/td>\n<td>Comme l\u2019humour me surprend, j&#8217;y perds le contr\u00f4le, mais en confiance, avec plaisir<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Parfois tout semble \u00eatre perdu<\/td>\n<td>Pour Dieu rien n\u2019est jamais perdu d\u00e9finitivement<\/td>\n<td>L\u2019humour attire mon attention sur un point positif dans la r\u00e9alit\u00e9, pas per\u00e7u mais bien r\u00e9el<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>&#8220;<em>La <a href=\"https:\/\/bice.org\/fr\/la-resilience-au-coeur-de-notre-action\/resilience-et-spiritualite\/\">spiritualit\u00e9<\/a> semble souvent prendre le contre-pied d\u2019une situation de vie, comme d\u2019ailleurs l\u2019humour. Toutefois, nous d\u00e9couvrons que cette incoh\u00e9rence apparente \u00e0 la surface des choses, cache \u00e0 un niveau plus profond une forte coh\u00e9rence bienfaisante avec la vie.<\/em>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>Heureux vous qui pleurez maintenant, car vous rirez<\/em> (Luc 6, 21b)<\/p>\n<p>Chercher inlassablement de nouvelles voies pour mieux accompagner les enfants fragilis\u00e9s est le r\u00f4le du BICE. Mieux explorer les vertus th\u00e9rapeutiques de l\u2019humour est une voie dans laquelle nous nous engageons avec joie !<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Une petite r\u00e9flexion de Stefan Vanistendael, chercheur au BICE, pour trouver dans l\u2019humour un petit chemin de r\u00e9silience et de croissance spirituelle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4747,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[132],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-actualites-du-bice"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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